Hell NO to All The Guys Out There

Okay given a situation, where a guy asked you out for so many times but you just cannot make it due to a lot of reason.

At times the guy may feel that she is giving some bull shit EXCUSES or anything or what ever you wanna take it as (referring to guys), she may be true about all her excuses (which also means no fate aka TIADA JODOH. So try harder next time......) or she just no so into the things you planned, or really not the right time due to some personal (college stuff or parents nagging aka curfews) or some monthly reason (you know the PMS rights... YES, i mention the word "rights" which also means is a question which cannot be debate.)

No matter what is her reason, one thing i wanna say is that try to make her feel guilty about it at any time you can (ie. through a phone conversation, chat room or what ever...) and thinking that she will feel extremely guilty and next time she will put all her effort make it up to you is a HELL NO THINKING........!!!

In the first place if she is not anyone to you, she do not have any responsibility to hold against to reject your date.

Even if she is your GF, as a BF you should know her well enough why she do that and seriously if she is your GF and she keep reject your date, honestly speaking YOU FAIL AS A BOYFRIEND.... :(

Next point is that a promise and a invite by you is a different thing. You invite her, does not mean that she promise you to attend. And so.......what is your point to keep mention about it and try to make her feel guilty....?! *irritating* *no sense*

In fact, the more you do it, the more she not gonna go out with you and she will feel like

"Oh God, why the hell he like to do that in every conversation and so not gentleman"
or

"Hello, i didn't even promise you in the first place, how can you say i break my promise"

or

"Gosh...he heart is so narrow and he is so childish to think like that"

or

"I am so not gonna go out with him anymore"

Seriously speaking if she have the time and really thinks that at that moment she can call you out, she will really do it. Then she will enjoy it more and feel happy about it. Thus, no point for a guy keep remind her about "she break your promise how many times la... she suppose to go where with you la... (It will be worse if she thinks that she never ever promise you before but make it sound like as if she did) she owe you this la that la...

All this reminder wont help much in calling her for the next date or have a date with her...!!!